How to Be a Gracious Guest at a Summer Party

Entry #2625, July 7, 2013

The heat is on and it’s time for entertaining and enjoying party going. While summer parties are meant for having fun, socializing, and letting loose, you have an obligation to be a well-mannered, polite, and considerate guest. If you have been invited to a party; irrespective of how formal or casual the event is, abide by these etiquette rules for optimum summertime fun.

How gracious of a guest are you?

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RSVP

RSVP’s allows the host to effectively plan for the event by accurately amassing the head count. Not acknowledging or responding to an invitation is considered rude and inconsiderate. So, make sure to respond to an invite as early as possible. If you receive an invitation with a specific RSVP date, be certain to honor it.

Be punctual

Always be punctual and arrive at the time communicated in the invitation. However, for any reason if you cannot make it on time, any more than fifteen minutes delay is pushing it. On the contrary, even though being fashionably late by few minutes is acceptable, never arrive early and inconvenience the harried host, who may be busy doing last minute preparations.

summer guests party etiquette

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Bring a gift

Bringing a host gift is a kind gesture and a great way to show your appreciation for being invited. It does not have to be ostentatious or lavish. A bouquet of flowers, bottle of wine or scotch, candles, chocolates, or assortment of fine cheeses are generally a safe bet. It’s also a good idea to throw in a small thank you card with your name written on it.

Don’t overindulge

Practice moderation when you eat and drink. No matter if the wine is flowing freely or how much you love that one particular snack, do not overindulge. Your intention should be to leave a positive impact on your host and fellow guests. One good way is to never come starving to a party.

Bring the host something for the party

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Say thank you

When it’s time to leave, make sure to personally thank your host for their hospitality. A second thank you by phone is considered polite the day after. If the event was formal, written thanks is always appreciated.

While displaying good party etiquette is a sign of courteousness and politeness, there is a more selfish reason to fit your behavior to the occasion; it ensures many more party invites coming your way!

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