Weddings in India are generally elaborate and celebrated with great pomp and show. Even though customs and traditions vary from one community to another, when it comes to wedding etiquette, irrespective of faith and region, most Indian weddings share some common features. So, if you are a first-timer at an Indian wedding, and unsure about what is expected of you as a guest, read on.
Traditional Indian wedding
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What to wear?
While there is no specific dress code, dressing up modestly is much appreciated at an Indian wedding. For women, if you are comfortable, consider wearing a traditional attire such as salwar kameez or a saree, whereas, formal suits or sherwani (kurta-pajama) are good for men. Choose bright colored garments, and avoid pure white or black dresses, as these colors are considered inauspicious in India.
Remove your shoes
It is imperative that you take off your shoes before you enter a religious place. The best way is to look at the feet of the people around you, if you find yourself to be the only one with shoes; you are probably standing in a sanctified area.
Indian wedding cake
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Wedding gifts
Giving gifts to newlyweds is a way to show your love and shower your blessings worldwide. So is in India. While there is no specific list, jewelry and household items are most common gifts in Indian weddings. If you are unsure about what to choose, handing over certain amount of cash in a decorated envelope is a safe bet. Amounts ending with number one signify luck, so pick up one with a coin pasted on it. Also, as the spirit of the gift is given much importance, avoid gift recycling.
Food
Known for its luxurious food, you are sure to find traditional cuisine at its best at any Indian wedding. Most families practice vegetarianism and depending upon their religious beliefs alcohol might not be served. As a guest, you must take part in the wedding feast, as it shows your approval of the wedding and best wishes for the couple.
The ceremony
Traditional Indian Wedding
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Indian weddings are usually lavish and last for about a week or so. But, the most important ritual of the long ceremony takes place next to the holy fire. The bride and the groom takes seven steps around the fire and recite their vows. With each vow, they make a commitment having strong mythological roots. While, there is not much expected of you as a guest during this ceremony, it’s good know information when attending an Indian wedding.
Put your mind at ease and do not worry too much about offending sentiments. Simply follow these basic tips and enjoy a traditional India wedding with grace and style.
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